
“When are you going to stop breastfeeding?”
Usually this question is asked by the ones that dissapprove breastfeeding for a long period of time. Now I’ve had many people ask me this and each time my response is this – For as long as I think it’s right, assuming I still have milk supply.
No matter how many times this topic opens up, the ‘critics’ come out of hiding with all of their unwanted opinions. Here’s my two cents – if it’s not your boob and not your baby/toddler, don’t try to involve yourself in situations that don’t pertain to you. What is so difficult about minding ones business?
But I digress. Today’s topic is mainly focused on HOW to stop breastfeeding. Notice I’m not discussing the WHEN because everyones situation is different and some people choose to stop earlier and some choose to continue for a long time. To each their own.
Weaning is something I know nothing about and I’m interested in hearing your stories about when you chose to wean and how you did it. What tips and tricks have you tried that helped you succeed in weaning your child? My son loves my boobs and I honestly have no idea how I’m going to wean him.
My goal for breastfeeding is no less than 2 years old (I hope I still have milk, fingers crossed) or who knows I might continue much longer. My son has an allergy to milk (cows milk) and dairy and I’m not sure when and if he’s going to outgrow it. I’ve heard a lot of other moms say that their child was also allergic to milk and dairy, but at some point they outgrew it.
A lot of mommas say that they got pregnant so the taste of the milk changed and their child stopped breastfeeding on their own and never looked back. And a lot of other mommas said you should let them lead the way. For me personally, letting my son lead the way sounds like the best approach, but the way he eats I feel like he’s never going to want to let go.
I have to admit though, whenever it is that we stop breastfeeding, I’m really going to miss it with him. Breastfeeding is already such a beautiful experience (and the hardest) and then adding my son to the mix just made the whole thing even more of a beautiful experience. I just can’t put into words how it feels when he’s feeding and before he sleeps, the look he gets in his eyes of total calmness and love is just something I wish I never had to let go. I truly think this transition is going to be harder on me than him, hahaaa. (secretly I feel like crying)
So to all the mommas that did choose to breastfeed when given the opportunity, cheers to you.Â
Share your ideas and tips and what has worked for you. Today, I’m not giving out my ideas. As my brilliant audience, you’re in the drivers seat.
I hope that you have an amazing Friday wherever you are in the world.

With lots of love,
Mariam

























